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Things You Should Not Do During Divorce

 September 20, 2017  /  Comments Off on Things You Should Not Do During Divorce

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Getting divorced is hard. It is emotionally frustrating and financially difficult. The whole process has the tendency to bring out the bad sides of people involved, especially to the divorced couple.

Things You Should Not Do During Divorce

It is rarely easy, and it is up to you to lessen the chance of regretting certain decisions made during the divorce. Here are some things that you should not do when going through a divorce.

  1. Do not try to hide money.

If you and your spouse have a joint account – and you probably do – do not transfer money from that account to your personal one. Most people use this to hide money from their spouse and even their lawyers.

  1. Stop putting money into a joint account.

Once the divorce action has started, there is no reason for you to add any more money into your joint account. This includes using a joint credit card for your own expenses. If you are to do so, make sure that the transactions are reasonable and properly documented.

  1. Do not do things out of revenge.

Indeed, divorce makes you want to get back at your spouse. Thinking about revenge usually results to doing things out of spite. Some spouses would destroy some of the things that their partner loves. It can be their golf clubs, clothes, or shoes. Leave these things alone.

  1. Do not serve your spouse in public.

We know you are angry, and serving your spouse in public would probably humiliate him/her. Because they are greatly embarrassed by this action, spouses may refuse to negotiate during the divorce and can lead to a longer proceeding.

  1. Do not change the lock of your matrimonial home.

Do not do this even if you do not want your spouse living under the same roof as you. It is illegal. Find another place to stay if you really can’t continue living with your ex-spouse.

  1. Do not disregard your kids’ feelings.

Remember that kids are extremely affected during a divorce. Manipulating them into going against your spouse on the divorce will just make things worse. There are trained professionals in court who can easily detect this kind of manipulation. If you get caught, and you most likely will be, your spouse can be awarded sole custody.

  1. Do not report false allegations of child abuse.

You are very likely to get caught. Not only will your spouse be awarded with sole custody, there’s a great chance you will get limited access and supervised visits to your child.

  1. Do not do your rantings online.

These days, it is extremely easy to air out your frustrations online about things that bother you. During the divorce, do not post anything connected to the proceedings. This includes insulting your ex-spouse on your Facebook status, or tweeting about your kids.

Remember that your posts on any social media can be saved as image or as screenshot. These things can be taken out of context and can be used in court against you.

  1. Do not refuse to communicate.

As stated, divorce is already complicated as it is without you refusing to express your side. The process itself will already cost you a lot of money. Refusing to cooperate will prolong the proceedings and will sky rocket your legal fees.

  1. Never lie.

It’s the simplest reminder and yet most people would still do it and think that they would be able to get away with it. When it comes to legal matters around divorce, lying will get you into a big trouble. If you are caught lying during the proceedings, the court will assume that you are a liar. They may refuse to believe anything that you say afterwards.

During a divorce, it is important to have a lawyer who can advise you on what to do during this difficult time. A divorce lawyer will help you on this kind of situation until the very end. Contact a reputable divorce attorney today.

Written by Carson and Coil, the leading divorce attorney in Jefferson City, MO.

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  • Published: 1 month ago on September 20, 2017
  • Last Modified: September 20, 2017 @ 5:42 am
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